Green and I are heading to yet another wedding tonight.
This wedding is a bit weird. It’s for Green’s pseudo-step-father (the man who raised him) Granpa Rico. Rico is marrying a woman he dated behind Green’s mother, Rita’s back. It’s not cheating. Rita and Rico had not been living together, affectionate or intimate in over 10 years. They were very active though in co-parenting Greens sister, Maggie, so Rita my (annoying) mother in law took it kind of hard. I think she thought he would never get over her or find anyone to replace her. In reality, they treated each other like cranky friends. It was very awkward. I’m telling you these families of Green’s are beyond dysfunctional!
I am actually happy Rico is getting married. He was so unhappy with Rita, and while I don’t know Silvia, I do know that everyone needs love – even grumpy Grandpa Rico! So tonight Green and I will dance, toast and wish them well.
It’s raining today and its seems to me so many people pray that it won’t rain on their wedding day. As if the pictures and outfits staying clean are the most important things. As I get older I realized that rain is necessary. Rain is good. Rain cleans things away right? Well later on, I would learn from friends that in many cultures rain is considered good luck on wedding days, because
“For one, it brings moisture to dry areas, which can create life and help plants grow and animals hydrate. Rain and water are essential to life on earth.
Further, rain is often considered a symbol of fertility. Water helps things grow. A couple may hope that one day their marriage will be blessed with children.
Rain is also is symbolic of a new start. The water can cleanse the earth and help wash away past debris. A marriage is a new start for a couple. If it rains on your wedding day, consider yourself blessed with a clean slate.”
Who knew?
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